“When an assertion is made, either based on incident or based on fact, you need to answer the assertion. If it is not disputed, acknowledge it. If it is disputed, explain it. Explanation enables interpretation of facts which will facilitate the understanding of those facts. It is only then that we can apply the correct principles and eliminate wastages of time.”
It felt as if I was transported right back to uni. I was treated like one; just clothed in a different shell. Hell, I bet that uncle with a doctorate and wears hearing aid also felt as if he was treated like a student. All of us, regardless of experience, were “lectured” together. After all, he makes the rules here.
I actually jotted down what he was saying, or what I understood it to be. Maybe I didn’t want to be singled out as the-cocky-one-who-thinks-she-knows-enough-thus-I’m-going-to-give-her-hell-to-teach-her-that-in-my-territory-she-does-not-know-much. Maybe it prevented me from falling asleep. Maybe I really was interested.
Whatever the reason, as I re-read it, I thought, well. He makes sense. In his own ideal world; where truth is the barest requirement.
Perhaps in ours too, if we each try hard enough.
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Chocopot,
we learn new things everyday! love the part where you take notes of what he said! good on you!
will give your "Book" tonite. please do remind me, u know me, i can lupa easily.
there is no ideal world, just an idea of an ideal world!
me miss u lor!
PO..
he gets to do that coz he is king of his land, he gets to make the rules. n then there are guiding principles he abides by. THATs his ideal world. annoying and time consuming as it is, u see the bigger picture and u try ur best to accomodate his wishes within the principles so u dont precipitate unfairness and neglect ur responsibilities.
in our own little worlds, truth and honest explanation are not always presented to us. making the time and effort might seem mundane to some. for us, we just make do with the explanation we're furnished with (if any) and continue living our lives, irrespective whether what we're told is true or slightly true or not at all.
my point is, we are not as privileged as he, and honest explanation, harsh as it may sometimes be, will benefit the person on the receiving end.
ideal world? me believes in the real world :)
yup me wants me book soon!
aaaw me miss u too.. hehee.. me see u tonite kan?
omg! its like another entry of ur blog all together ;-) mwhaahhahaha! yup babe i agree with u, me feel u babe!
yup we meet for dindin tonite!
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